I go somewhere first thing because as soon as you think you fear you tag it.
"there you are," you say.
"Don't," you say.
Then you decide there are obviously some things out of your control. Then you decide that somehow someway some place some I don't know. I don't understand why. Then you decide that it is not for me to know. Not if you say it that way.
Today I am grateful that there's always another way to say a thing.