No, Dug. I don't need a dead rat on the doorstep. I'm not all that familiar with feng shui but I'm saying not so much. And no, we can't sew our bodies together so that we'll walk as one being and never part. There are some rules, Dug. We all need them because no matter our intentions, how loving or giving or needy or what we think is right for us, we have to remember there are others.
Today I am grateful to understand I live in a world where we can respect limits because we respect each other.